Why do so many girls rely on online dating? Yes, because it is convenient – you do not need to dress up, make up, do your hair, manicure and pedicure. No need to overcome the excitement at the sight of a chic man opposite. It is enough to open a laptop and chat with young people, sitting in a shabby dressing gown or a stretched T-shirt. But on the other side of the monitor sit the same insecure men who have not gained popularity in real life.
But on the other side of the monitor sit the same insecure men who have not gained popularity in real life.
Moreover, on dating sites, you can run into scammers who are waiting for the moment when you fall into teenage romanticism and give them your money. I’m not saying that they are all scammers. There are decent guys and successful men who simply don’t have time to meet girls, but still you should take precautions. Let’s have a look at more information below.
5 types of men to watch out for online
No. 1. scammers
They earn a living by breeding romantic young ladies for money. They act according to the standard scheme: they rub themselves into confidence, break through the girls to emotions, and when the emotional state of the victim reaches a peak, they “close the deal”. The girl sends money (usually to a mobile phone account), after which the scammer disappears without a trace – his number does not answer, the account is blocked.
These usually have several accounts and clients “in development”. For example, from one account, he learns that you love Italian cuisine. And from the second account, already under a different name, he writes: “You know, I love Mediterranean cuisine. Especially Italian. It would be great if we met in a restaurant like this and ordered spaghetti.” And you think: “How wonderful, I found a kindred spirit. Or maybe this is my destiny?
Butterflies flutter in your stomach and the world appears in pink. It is at this moment that you are vulnerable – even an educated and serious girl finds it difficult to resist the influence of a swindler. You are at the peak of emotions, and this is the most convenient moment when you can take money from you.
You are at the peak of emotions, and this is the most convenient moment when you can take money from you.
No. 2. inadequate
More often come across two types: sociophobes-introverts and incredulous miser. Let’s consider each of them separately.
Number 3. Illiquid men
There are notorious men with a terrible appearance or bad breath. They either sit in their virtual underground and do not make real contact, or when they meet they behave like “inadequacies”.
No. 4. Marriage agencies
If on a dating site you come across a handsome man with an indescribable appearance like from the cover of a magazine, then perhaps this is a trap of a marriage agency. The goal in this case is to lure you into the office under any pretext. They will tell you that this man is busy, and they will offer you an interview for the status of the wife of an oligarch. It turns out that you are not suitable for the man of interest, and you will be offered to choose another from the card file – for this you will be charged the n-th amount of money.
Safety note:
1. Look for a man equal to yourself in status
Do not aim at the “Internet oligarchs” if you have not yet completed training in our Training Center, and your female rating has not skyrocketed. If you are lucky and you find a really successful man, then you will have to “pay extra” for a relationship when the man’s biological love (passion, sexual desire) passes. As a rule, men begin to be treated with disdain, and some even “beat the face”, and then it is very difficult to hold them accountable.
2. Don’t write long messages
For one message from a man – one of your short answers, not two or ten. Do not put a lot of curly brackets and emoticons. Your job is to schedule a meeting time and place. Do not waste time on correspondence, but immediately go on a real date.
3. Never go to a stranger’s house
Dates must take place before 21:00 in public places. No dubious establishments, clubs and meetings at his house. According to the logic of men, if you are ready to meet at home and even at a later time, then you yourself want to “give”.
4. Do not give a man a penny at the dating stage
And also at the stage of development of relations and in the family budget. Don’t believe stories about a bad leg. Let a man even break both legs – if he is decent or successful, then there will definitely be relatives and friends who will help him.
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